Another idea that is floating around out there was that non-monogamous relationships have become so popular inside our monogamy dominated culture because monogamy is this challenging thing that does take time, commitment and work, whereas non-monogamy is…well…easy.
On the other hand, non-monogamy may be in the same way challenging as monogamy is, or even more therefore on occasion, because it introduces challenges into relationships that monogamous folks don’t need to grapple with quite just as much. For example…
Time Management
For the one thing, it really isn’t as though non-monogamous individuals are abruptly awarded more time in one day, more times into the week, etc. We’re handling jobs, buddies, family members, animals and also children just as the other countries in the world. Except…with numerous partners. Straight away that necessitates lot more preparing than monogamous folk need to worry about. A simple, “Just thought I’d swing by and shock you for meal, ” can be quite a wee bit embarrassing in the event that you’ve already got a meal date with somebody else. You came across a great woman at a cafe and she told you she’s free this Thursday. Great!
Except…you agreed along with your main partner that Thursday ended up being their time to make certain your quality time. Continuă lectura „Myth # 2: Non-monogamy is simpler than monogamy”